cound not ask for more

alhamdulillah.. :)
hope for the best. aminn....

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Lying here with you
Listening to the rain
Smiling just to see the smile upon your face
These are the moments I thank God that I'm alive
These are the moments I'll remember all my life
I found all I've waited for
And I could not ask for more

Looking in your eyes
Seeing all I need
Everything you are is everything to me

These are the moments
I know heaven must exist
These are the moments I know all I need is this
I have all I've waited for
And I could not ask for more

I could not ask for more than this time together
I could not ask for more than this time with you
Every prayer has been answered
Every dream I have's come true

And right here in this moment is right where I'm meant to be
Here with you here with me

These are the moments I thank God that I'm alive
These are the moments I'll remember all my life
I've got all I've waited for
And I could not ask for more

I could not ask for more than the love you give me
'Coz it's all I've waited for
And I could not ask for more

[Edwin McCain, Could Not Ask For More]

teman wanita idaman :)

Five (5) 'Great-Girlfriend-Material' Characteristics:-

Trait #1: You strike the balance between appreciative and independent.

The trick is to strike a happy balance. You want to allow him to indulge his masculine desire to protect, provide, and give pleasure, but without making him feel like you're taking him for granted.

Rules of thumb : appreciate, enjoy, but NEVER expect. And make sure he knows it.

Trait #2: You're happy to let him have his own life

men need to know that, should things between you ever reach that kind of level, that you'll still be OK with him having interests and friends of his own. He needs to know that he won't need to account for his every move, or apologize to you for having a late night out every so often.

The trick to maintaining a happy status quo? It's called Live and Let Live. Men will value a partner who WANTS to hang out with them, but doesn't NEED them to be around - someone who enjoys their company when they're around, and is happy to get on with her own life when they're not.

So be affectionate, by all means - just don't translate "affection" into "neediness".

Trait #3: You Keep Yourself Together - But Don't Take It Too Far

The ideal girlfriend will keep herself looking tidy and together (because SHE wants to, not because HE wants her to) but won't need an exhaustive 2-hour primping routine just to go grab brunch together.

Trait #4 You Don't Load Him Down With Your Insecurities

We all have our low moments, when all we want is to be hugged and told that everything's going to be OK. But you have to give it time. You can't overload the poor bloke with too much responsibility, too early on - you want him to feel like a boyfriend, not a babysitter!

It's hard to know where to draw the line - you want to be able to trust this person with your true feelings, but you don't want to actually drive him away. if you're interested in scoring "great girlfriend" points, you'll do things that show how confident and secure you are in yourself - not things that showcase your insecurities.

Remember, how we see ourselves sets the tone for how others see us.

Trait #5: He is not your project (and you both know it)

Instead of trying to fix him, show him how supportive you're likely to be as a long-term girlfriend. Make him feel GOOD about himself. Show him how you can be an asset to his self-esteem, social status, and life. If he shows you a project he's working on, reads you some of the novel he's writing in his spare time, or lets you take a peek at his amateur cartoon strips, be enthusiastic in your praise and support of his efforts.

And save your "suggestions" on his eating habits, wardrobe, and alcoholic excesses ... do you want to be the fun-loving companion that he loves to spend time with, or the authoritarian mother-figure who sparks irritation and resentment?

Men get enough competition from their male friends that they appreciate support from you all the more. Showing that you're the kind of lady who'll make him feel good about himself will show him that you're likely to be a supportive long-term girlfriend, too.

[taken from http://www.meetyoursweet.com/]

aiks.. senangnyer..

erm, satu lagi lembaran baru telah bermula, start hari ni. heh..
satu benda baru telah berlaku sejak dua menjak ni. hm, cammane nk cite eh.

sudah lama saya tidak menikmati perasaan ini.. bila ade orang tu kata, "saya mencintai awak, menyayangi awak tak ubah seperti saya menjaga diri dan harta benda saya".

O.M.G!

saya sudah mengagak sebenarnya, tapi ragu-ragu. tapi akhirnya, terluah jugak cerita sebenarnya. beliau mempunyai kebanyakan criteria yang saya cari dalam seorang suami, seorang kekasih, seorang sahabat. karisma, bijak, kelakar, innocent, bertanggungjawab, kacak (heh!), baik hati, lemah lembut, protective, ramah (over!), berpengetahuan tinggi dlm agama. he has it, eventho masih ade flaws-nya. tapi kita terima dgn hati terbuka. mindset kene betul.

beliau menyampaikan hasrat utk mengambil saya sebagai surinya suatu hari nanti, perhaps dlm 1-2 tahun ni kut. huhuhuhu.. isit for real? beliau ingin membawa saya ke rumah ibubapanya di selatan tanahair dalam masa terdekat ni. well, ade kenduri kendara so, why not berkenal2an ek. no harm what.

Ya Allah, andainya dia Kau jadikan untukku, mudahkanlah perjalananan kami, dekatkanlah hati kami berdua, mudahkanlah untuk kami menuju jalan bahagia, sentiasa mengingatiMu.

Amin..

better left unsaid..

dear,
i am so glad that you've found what you're looking for. don't thank me, but thank God. because of His will, we bumped each other, because of His will we met each other, bacause of His will you discovered the unknown. the unknown that may bring you happiness. i am so happy for you.

friend,
i am so glad we've found each other, getting to know each other. we get along pretty well and i hope that will last forever. i wouldn't want to let you go.

dearest,
you may not be perfect, none of us may not. but it doesn't mean that we cannot accept one another. carry on, just be ourselves. thank you for accepting me for who i am. and i am honored to accept you as who and what you are. not for someone you wanted to be. but then, there are things, for now, better left unsaid. for both of us. might be too soon to be reveiled. but deep in my heart, i am happy being just being with you. u have always made my day, made me laugh, gave me precious reminders and guidance, in every single day since i met you. please, don't ever let me go.

nevertheless,
it we are meant to be, the time will come. but i hope, with His bless, i would to have you for my own. never stop trying, never stop believing, never stop have faith in Him that everything happened has reasons.

anyway, thank you for everything, dear friend..

aman..tenang...?

sejak dua menjak ni, perjalanan hari saya lebih 'aman'. walaupun still, ada hickups di sana sini, tapi saya tetap maintain cool. kalau dulu, kebiasaannya, kalau ade hickup sikit je, mesti saya dh gabra. sekarang ni cam takde gabra sgt, well, takde se-horror mcm dulu kan. lebih cool dan tenang. :))

saya rasa 'blessed' atas segala yang terjadi pada saya. tak kira yang baik mahupun yang tidak baik. pasti ada hikmahnya. saya sgt bernasib baik sbb masih diberi peluang untuk memperbetulkan kesilapan saya, masih diberi masa untuk memperbaiki diri. masih diberi peluang untuk mengenali dan 'explore' perkara baru (hopefully yg baik2 shj) serta mengenali orang yang baik-baik yang boleh dijadikan guidance atau panduan.

syukur alhamdulillah.

saya harap, dan saya akan berusaha untuk menjadi lebih baik dari semalam dan melakukan sesuatu yang sebaiknya yang saya boleh. dengan support family & kawan2 yang setia dan memahami, itulah intipati atau rumusan yang terbaik untuk saya menjalani hari-hari saya dengan lebih gembira dan tenang insyaAllah.

di samping, semestinya, dan masih berusaha mencapainya : hati yang sentiasa mengingati DIA.

segala yang baik, datang daripada DIA. yang tidak baik adalah dari diri kita sendiri.

wallahualam.

bila lagi nie...

bila la agaknye dapat makan lagi kat Nasi Lemak Antarabangsa, Kampung Baru KL nie yek.. ada orang tu kata nak belanja.. lagi.. hehehe.. ;)

p/s: terima kasih en.zul [bukan nama sebenar].. belanja makan nasi lemak kat belakang dewan [dewan ape ekkk.. hihi]. you know who you are ;)