thoughts for today..

it's about learning to love the person we found.
not to love the person whom we want to love.
because he or she may not be a perfect person.

love them for who they are now, not for who they were or who they wish to be.

then, this is what the quote "love someone for better or for worse" means. we accept them as they are. not expecting anything in return.

we must learn to give more than to receive from one another. we must learn to appreciate every littlest thing the other person did for us, not to mention to appreciate all the big favors they did for us.

we must learn to greet him/her nicely everytime. we must love and touch them everyday eventhough the person have hurt us. it may be hard to do, but we have to do it anyway...

with that simple tips, insyaAllah, we shall have our love till..
.
.
.
.
.
.
... forever :)

p/s: sayang.. thank you for everything.. and for accepting me for who i am now..

commit-or-not-to-commit checklist update..

Referring to my previous post, i think i can update the man's requirement before he can commit to a woman (based on my observation.. hehe)..

REQUIREMENT #1:
He needs to be READY to commit. Remember, it's about WHEN, not WHO.

REQUIREMENT #2:
Having a woman who enjoys and admires his lust for life, not condemns him for it.

REQUIREMENT #3:
His aims and desires must be at least basically the same as yours.

REQUIREMENT #4:
He knows that you - like everyone else - have flaws, but loves you anyway.



hmmmm..... Requirement #3 is still in process of observation and action. heheheh.. ;)

Legend:-
CHECKED!
In Progress

jalan-jalan cari nasi minyak..

well, there you go. another wedding reception invitation. this time, located in Bukit Rambai, Melaka. never been there before eventho i have been in Melaka for 4+ years. maklumlah, jarang berjalan. asyik2 MP, JJ, Kotamas (skang dh nama lain, lupe lak...), plaza hang tuah. that's it. i am done. heh..

anyway, Shah Fitri and wifey invited me to his wedding on Nov 30th. congratulations!!!

and this is my first 'trip' with my D. seronok gi jenjalan ni, especially with someone we care about (other than family laaa..) all in all, we had fun and we had the change to spend some quality time together. i mean, this is more meaningful. hehe.. and surprisingly.. we found a kampung somewhere near the reception, with the name 'Kampung Setulang Daing'. waaaaa.. apa lagi, ade sorang tu kembang kuncup la. Jom kita tgk aksi orang tu..

this is my favorite shot :)

sukanya dia.. mmuah ;)

lepas wedding tu, kami ronda2 di kota melaka dan singgah di MP dan Jusco Ayer Keroh. we had fun, we went down the memory lane whereby we told each other stories and we showed the places we've been to. so nice. but then we were young and naive.

we had a nice dinner at Jusco, and then we went back to KL by 930pm. all in all, we had a great time together. i never felt like this. he makes me so happy and insyaAllah, we hope for the best.